Our life does not shape as we want. We have to deal with things that are difficult to accept in life.
Ups and downs, good and bad times are for sure, but they don’t affect your chances of being successful. What really does matter is how you perceive these circumstances and accept them.
So here are the top 10 Most Difficult Things To Accept In Life.
1) Being your own self.
Let us think of this fact that why do we see so many people are cramming about their skin colour, their nose, their height, their looks, etc?
The most probable reasons behind this, are the stereotypes that are made by the media, social communities, peer groups, and social influencers.
People all over the world find it so difficult to accept themselves how they are being made, in the true sense. Time has changed its form, where each one of us is struggling to improve external beauty by 10 X factor, but if we make even small efforts to improve eternal beauty and thinking levels even by one x-factor, this can change the world totally.
So it’s best if you acknowledge your own body and human form early, the more early you will get towards your road and peak of success.
2) Your parents are your best companions
From being a baby and loving parents, to teenagers that are freaked out by their parents, and to adults who truly understand the value of our parents, all these three circumstances make us understand the importance of parents in our life.
A time comes in each one’s life, that we feel that our friends are better companions as compared to our parents. But a sailor in your same boat cannot actually guide you.
But our parents have experienced much more and have a better understanding of the competitive world which we have not been exposed to. Parents are our best companions and there’s no doubt about it.
So start spending quality time with your parents, exchange love care, and thoughts, and make your bond strong with them. Initially, you may find it hard, but it will help you in the true sense.
Hillary Clinton says that “Learn how to take criticism seriously but not personally.”
People find it so hard to accept that criticism is also necessary to progress ahead in life. Most of the time with criticism come negative thoughts towards the critic and people don’t evaluate their own selves and their actions.
So always remember that accepting both compliments and criticism is necessary, as it takes both the sun and the rain for a flower to grow.
Yes, we do agree that dealing with criticism is hard, but if it is not hard, then it is not making you strong.
“To improve is to change, but to be perfect is to change often”, a quote by Winston Churchill.
It is very hard for most of us to change according to the changing times. Many times the most probable reason behind failure is that people are not open to changes or evolution. They become stagnant on their road to success.
Yes, it is hard to change because real change and revolution mean the ending of comfort zones, the start of true trials, the end feel good sense, and the start of a true test, leading you to be the best.
So the more quickly you will evolve and change, the more doors of success and improvement will start opening themselves.
As Oprah Winfrey says that “The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude.”
5) You can only control yourself.
This thing is pretty much hard to accept as it brings a reflection that we are responsible for our own blunders, mistakes, success, and reflection of how well we have understood our own self.
Knowing yourself is wisdom but controlling yourself is strength. You do need self-control in a world that is out of control.
This concept seems pretty much easy to handle, but that’s not the true case.
Why? Because external circumstances, inevitable changes, unknocked opportunities, and bad luck can be easily pinpointed to suppress down why didn’t you succeed? Maybe you didn’t hear the opportunity knocking or your door was not that strong.
But a person who takes responsibility for his own self and controls his thoughts and emotions is the one who accepts everything and proceeds on with his life.
Betrayal is one single phrase that can pull you back from where you have reached. Crush down all your emotional well-being and mold circumstances that can make you take any action at any time.
After all, life is not about who’s real to your face but it’s about who’s bad behind your back.
But why do people find betrayals so hard and negative? Because most of the time they never come from your enemies, they are from the people whom you love and they don’t love you back.
7) People will not treat you how you want.
Well, all of us have been into such situations, where we feel vulnerable around people. They don’t care about us, they make us feel down, pull us back, put negativity into us and make us feel that we are good for nothing in our life.
All of us have been into such situations where people just fake out their personalities to take something good out of us.
It is hard but you have to accept that the way people judge you, only defines them and not you. You will be defined in the true sense by your actions, the changes you make in the world, and how valuable your success is.
Surveys say that over 6.2 million people have gone for surgery to prevent wrinkles in 2019. These numbers are clear enough to define why people are avoiding aging which is natural and going to happen.
With the changing technology and times, the human race is becoming a kind of competitive or over competitive in terms of beauty.
Aging is inevitable and the one who was full of glow and charm has to face wrinkles at some point or the other in his lifetime.
9) Taking help doesn’t make you incompetent.
People feel very shy and hard to accept that taking help is rather beneficial for their progress. They are just stuck in their life work or daily chores because they are not willing to take help from others.
Rather if you take help from others and exchange your ways of thinking then this is much better for both the parties on the other side.
“We all die. The goal is not to live forever, but it is to create something that will live forever”
Death is the one single thing that has a hundred percent probability of taking place, sooner or later. So does that mean we should just wait for death or live each moment of life adding some value to our own self and into the outer world? The second option is pretty much good and fulfilling.
So these were the top 10 Most Difficult Things To Accept In Life